My Husband Has Never Kissed Me, I Just Discovered He Has Been Lying About His Reason And I Am Hurt

I have been married for 3 years with a son. I could boast of a very good and supporting husband who provides sufficiently. I met him during my national service days, he was my supervisor who was overly hard on me particularly. I wondered why until he dropped his pride to profess his love and interest.

The rest of the story Is a reflection of my beautiful marriage, but something has gone on for a very long time. My husband never kisses me. His usual excuse is he isn’t much of a kisser. The only time we ever locked lips was on our wedding day, even that, it lasted briefly. It was never a problem, I respected that and never questioned him.

 I do enjoy tongue locking and kissing but I have to shove those desires down my own throat. There was one time, I felt very embarrassed because he quickly ejected when I tried kissing him. I can not even kiss my own husband. Its beginning to bother me, our bedmatics have become stale and monotonous. My desire and interest in kissing has been shelved.

I recently discovered through his ex that he indeed lied about his dislike for kissing. I felt broken, my self-esteem has dipped and am beginning to feel unwanted. I gathered courage to ask a friend if I had bad breath, she confirmed my fear. She was very frank with me and told me she didn’t know how to tell me. It all makes sense now but my own husband couldn’t have told me I had a problem. I realized I am suffering from halitosis, which I have sought medical treatment.

 My husband doesn’t still kiss me but I can not shake that thought of he lying to me for years. Can I trust him? What is he hiding from me? I am embittered what should I do? My social life has since been curtailed. I’m always in nose mask lately just to save myself from any discomforting incidences.

My married is on rocks, am beginning to feel less and less for my husband, my husband is oblivious of what is causing my sudden change. He is frustrated but I on the other hand, really hate him more each day.