#SELF-DISCOVERY# SELF-VALIDATION# SELF-LOVE#

Having been there and done that, i can tell you for free that weight loss, weight gain, butt enlargement, boob lift, marriage, buying or building your own house, having kids, wearing expensive clothes and shoes cannot make you truly happy.


Mostly, the things we do to show others we are beautiful,  made, tough, or connected are things that magnify our insecurities.


A man who is secure in himself has no urge to flaunt wealth, i'm yet to see Alhaji Dangote post a picture of his "Machines" or him "chilling in his Private Jet".

A woman who is secure in her looks has no urge to go under the knife for enhancement, think of  Michelle Obama.

True happiness comes from knowing who you are ( SELF DISCOVERY) and loving yourself, " even though"...Anyone who can love without caring about the VALIDATION of others is the one who has found true happiness.